Are You Curious—or Serious—About Awakening?

The difference between collecting spiritual teachings and allowing them to set you free

Practical Wisdom: Living 5D in a 3D World

Integrating higher consciousness into everyday life—one miracle at a time!

Hi Beloved,

For many years, I was a sincere spiritual seeker.

I read the books.

I attended the workshops.

I listened to teachers.

I searched for practices, principles, and information that might finally give me the happiness, abundance, love, and peace I believed I was missing.

And every bit of that searching served me.

It filled my mind with new possibilities. It introduced me to ideas that challenged my programming. It helped me recognize that there had to be another way to experience this life.

But eventually, all that searching did something else:

It exhausted me.

Thank God.

Because exhaustion finally brought me to the place where I was willing to admit:

I have been searching everywhere for something that cannot be found outside me.

That was when my spiritual curiosity began to turn into spiritual seriousness.

Curiosity Looks for More

Most spiritual journeys begin with curiosity.

We want to improve our lives. We want to manifest more money, attract the perfect partner, heal our bodies, find our purpose, raise our frequency, and become a better version of ourselves.

There is nothing wrong with any of that.

Curiosity is often the opening through which Truth first enters our awareness.

But curiosity usually asks:

What else can I add to myself?

What else can I learn?

What else can I achieve?

What else can I manifest?

What else can I do so I will finally feel complete?

Spiritual seriousness asks a very different question:

What am I willing to release so I can remember that I am already whole?

And this is where uncompromising honesty becomes necessary:

Am I using spirituality to awaken—or am I using it to make the identity I already have feel more spiritually righteous and superior?

There is no shame in the answer.

But there can be no freedom without the question.

The true spiritual journey is not primarily a process of adding.

It is a process of removing.

A Course in Miracles tells us that its purpose is not to teach us the meaning of Love, because that is beyond what can be taught. Its purpose is to remove the obstacles that block our awareness of Love’s presence.

Love is already here.

God is already here.

The Christ within us is already here.

We are not creating the Truth of who we are.

We are excavating everything that has covered it.

Pick Up the Shovel

Imagine that you are preparing to build a foundation ten feet beneath the ground.

You do not create the depth.

It is already there.

But to reach it, you must remove everything standing between the surface and that solid ground.

One shovel of dirt at a time.

That is the spiritual journey.

Every false belief is another shovel of dirt.

Every judgment.

Every grievance.

Every story of unworthiness.

Every belief that someone else must change before you can be peaceful.

Every belief that you must acquire something before you can be happy.

Every belief that others can hurt you.

Every belief that you are separate from God.

We do not awaken by decorating the dirt.

We awaken by removing it.

That requires honesty.

It requires courage.

And above all, it requires abundant willingness to question every belief that contradicts what God created us to be.

The Belief Beneath the Searching

The ego’s thought system is surprisingly simple:

I need to get something to be happy.

And once I get it:

I must protect it, because losing it will make me unhappy.

That is the pendulum upon which the ego swings.

Seeking and fearing.

Acquiring and protecting.

Winning and losing.

Pleasure and pain.

But if I am as God created me, then my happiness cannot depend upon what I acquire or what I might lose.

What God created is already complete.

What God created is already worthy.

What God created is already Love.

The problem is not that we lack Love.

The problem is that we have buried Love beneath beliefs that say we are something other than Love.

The Obstacle We Rarely Recognize

One of the deepest obstacles covering our awareness of Love is guilt.

A Course in Miracles makes an uncompromising statement:

“Love and guilt cannot coexist, and to accept one is to deny the other.”

We cannot fully experience the Love of God while insisting that we—or anyone else—deserve condemnation.

Guilt is what keeps the ego alive.

When I feel guilty, I expect punishment.

When I expect punishment, I become defensive.

When I become defensive, I look for someone else to blame.

And when I blame, I project my unconscious guilt onto the world.

Now I can point outside myself and say:

There is the guilty one.

There is the bad person.

I can't speak freely when they are around.

Because of them, I can't be myself.

There is the reason I cannot be at peace.

But every person I make guilty becomes another witness to my own belief in guilt.

This does not mean we deny harmful behavior, ignore injustice, or refuse to establish appropriate boundaries.

It means we learn to respond without using condemnation and blame to hide from our own healing.

I can recognize that your behavior is harmful without forgetting that you remain exactly as God created you.

That is how we interrupt the cycle of guilt, projection, punishment, and attack.

God Is Not Waiting to Punish You

So many of us were taught about a God who watches us, judges us, and keeps a record of whether we have been naughty or nice.

But a punishing God is not Love.

My direct experience of God revealed something radically different.

God is not horrified by the human adventure.

God is not clutching divine pearls over the mistakes we made while we had forgotten who we were.

In our experience of separation, we used the power of mind to miscreate. We chose fear, projected guilt, and produced suffering—not because God willed it, but because we had forgotten the Love in which we were created.

And even that suffering became contrast. It helped us recognize what we no longer wanted to choose.

The God of Love does not greet the returning child with punishment.

God celebrates the return.

“Welcome home, prodigal child! What an adventure you created. Are you finished playing the game of separation? Wonderful. Now let’s play the game of remembering.”

That is the God I have come to know.

And the more deeply I know that God, the less interested I become in punishing myself or anyone else.

Forgiveness Ends the Self-Punishment

Many people believe that releasing guilt means denying what happened.

It does not.

Forgiveness lets us acknowledge what happened without letting the past define the Truth of who we are now.

Perhaps you made choices you regret.

Perhaps you hurt someone because you were trying to protect yourself.

Perhaps you acted from fear because fear was the only teacher you knew how to hear.

You can honestly acknowledge that without continuing to spiritually flagellate yourself.

You can say:

I did the best I could with the awareness I had.

I did not understand that another choice was available.

Today, I know differently—and because I know differently, I can choose differently.

The person you are today would not necessarily make the choice you made five, ten, or thirty years ago.

So why keep punishing the person you have become for what a less-aware version of you did?

The past has no power over this moment unless you continue carrying it into this moment.

Forgiveness does not change what happened.

It changes what you allow what happened to mean about you.

Integration in Daily Life

Becoming serious about awakening does not require leaving your family, moving into a monastery, or meditating in a cave.

For most of us, everyday life is the monastery.

Our relationships are the curriculum.

Our reactions reveal the obstacles that still need removing.

Irritations invite self-inquiry.

Here are a few ways to begin digging:

1. Notice What You Are Chasing

When you find yourself believing that something outside you will finally make you happy, pause and ask:

What feeling do I believe this will give me—and am I willing to discover that feeling within myself first?

Enjoy the house, relationship, money, journey, or accomplishment.

Just do not assign it the impossible job of completing you.

2. Notice Whom You Are Blaming

When someone becomes the reason for your lack of peace, ask:

What belief about myself am I projecting onto this person?

You may still need to speak honestly, establish a boundary, or take action.

But you can do it without surrendering your mind to attack.

3. Question the Voice of Guilt

When your mind begins replaying something you regret, ask:

Would I make the same choice today?

If the answer is no, forgive the self you were and allow that recognition to become evidence of your growth—not another weapon against yourself.

4. Notice Where Adulthood Became Another Disguise

Seriousness about awakening does not mean becoming grim about spirituality.

Ask yourself:

What natural joy did I bury beneath the identity I learned to perform?

Perhaps you danced, sang, painted, played ball, explored outside, or laughed without needing a reason.

Reclaiming that openness is not another attempt to find completion in an activity. It is a way of noticing how much spontaneity was covered by conditioning—and giving the innocent child within you room to breathe again.

5. Replace the Belief with Truth

Whenever you uncover a belief that says you are unworthy, unsafe, unlovable, powerless, or separate, do not merely analyze it.

Replace it.

Shift and Lift.

I am as God created me.

I remain guiltless.

I am Love, and my function is to extend what I am.

This is how the foundation becomes stronger than the conditioning built upon it.

"Curiosity collects spiritual information. Seriousness removes everything preventing you from living it."

You can spend decades collecting teachings and still protect the beliefs that keep you imprisoned.

You can read every spiritual book, attend every workshop, follow every teacher, and visit every sacred site while continuing to believe that someone else is responsible for your peace.

All of it may serve you.

But eventually, you must put down the next book, pick up the shovel, and begin excavating the beliefs within your own mind.

The question is no longer:

How much do I know?

The question becomes:

How much am I willing to release?

Closing Transmission

Beloved, you are not trying to become the Light.

You are removing what has kept you from recognizing that you have always been the Light.

You are not attempting to earn God’s Love.

You are releasing the guilt that taught you to hide from it.

You are not constructing a new and improved spiritual identity.

You are allowing every false identity to fall away until only what God created remains.

Hint: it is childlike and filled with wonder!

Don't judge yourself for the layers you haven't removed yet.

Do not compare the depth of your excavation with anyone else’s.

Some have removed one shovel of dirt.

Some have removed five feet.

Some are standing upon the foundation and still discovering small pockets of soil that need to be cleared.

Every honest recognition is progress.

Every grievance released uncovers more Light.

Every act of self-forgiveness loosens the ego’s hold.

Every time you remember the innocence of another, you strengthen your recognition of your own.

You have searched long enough to discover that the world cannot give you what God placed within you.

Now, if you are ready, dig deeper.

Not because something magnificent is waiting to be added to you—

but because something magnificent has been within you all along.

Lainaism 

"Your Light does not need to be created.

It only needs to be uncovered."

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With all my love,

Founder, The Awareness Academy 

"I am as God created me."– ACIM Lesson 110